Wednesday, 10 June 2015

'Me Time' Pre and Post Baby - What a difference!

Selfish as it initially may sound, I am a HUGE fan of 'me time'. Like most parents I'm definitely wishing I'd taken advantage of this more pre baby (along with sleep!), but i do still make time for myself now and then. I wanted to write this post as I've realised that what constitutes 'me time' now is considerably different to what it did before - so this is funny post (cause we have to laugh :|) but with some helpful hints on how to make the most of those 5 minutes and become a multi task expert like me! (Whilst writing this I'm feeding baby, and cleaning whist thinking of the next sentence...)



PRE BABY TIME
  •  A visit to a nail bar -The Village Beauty in Norton, Stockton on Tees is a particular favourite of mine - my gorge long talons would last at least 2 weeks and then I'd have a free hour on a Sat morn to head back for infills - not so good for handling babies (the GUILT when you scratch them by accident is unbearable). And they certainly don’t look good with poop under them
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Posh nails

·     A good book - Book pictured is Lena Dunhams 'Not that Kind of girl'. I can't confirm if this is a good book or not as I haven't had time to read it 


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To read!
    
  • A trip to Whitby - admittedly this is extravagant for me time BUT i used to love this one. This isn't to say we can't and don't do days out cause we do - this is specifically Whitby - have you seen the amount of steps?! The tiny shops with the many breakable items?!
  • An after-work drink - This is straight out the window as I currently don't work for starters. I still go out, of course I need to go out - but this is now a plan, not on a whim. And I mean a major operational plan - a month in advance, times down to a tee, worked around nap time/child care/whether I can get the sick stain out of my fave and only pair of decent black jeans

·   An hours bath - including face mask /leg shave/ intensive exfoliation session - A spare hour, what's that?

POST BABY TIME

  • The bath/nails/wine combo - The new bath time is around 20 mins/half hour tops, as although babies in bed we've got other stuff to do, i.e. put the house back to together, eat, have a hot cuppa etc. I've therefore become and expert at this combo. Run a bath (if you're feeling extra savvy get cleaning the bathroom whilst doing so), paint your nails and drink your wine while fitting in a quick wash. Sorted! Also top tip - once you've painted your nails if you run them under the cold water tap they dry extra quick!
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The new essentials
  • Chocolate time - Something I never previously considered a luxury - I ate it when I wanted where I wanted. Now I'm so concerned with getting Bub to eat healthy I can hardly sit in front him scoffing choccy all day. Que me standing in the kitchen corner during TV time for a few sneaky bites 
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My FAVE
  • Exercise - I never thought this would be actually enjoyable but it really is. I now go running when I can (I try for twice a week) and to the gym during the week. Once or twice a week as soon as hubby comes home, I head to the gym for an hours peace and quiet! I do exercise obviously but in the quiet, watching adult tv! In the process I've managed to reduce my body fat % quite a bit, RESULT
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The most rewarding 'job' in the world .. even if it ocassionaly means sacrificing my choc!
Luckily I enjoy my family time so much more than my me time. I think my favourite thing about being a parent is permanently having my little best friend by my side. Bub makes me laugh every single day and makes me happier than new nails ever could (Although I shall be booking them for the next special occassion of course!!)

Tuesday, 19 May 2015

Time Management

I seem to have been doing LOADS lately with friends, family and job-search wise & yet I've had the same amount of time (or lack of), that I've always had. How come? 2 things -
DIARIES & Get up and go!
Don't get me wrong, they're not new to me, I've always had them. In fact, I'm the one with 6 notepads and 2 diaries just in my handbag. But the're always for show Hehe
I'm the one who never has the time for the gym/start driving/job hunting/see people. Yet I have the time for the pub & shopping (I maintain these are still essential)!
It's been about creating time. For E.g - yesterday I got in at 5.30 and was going for a meal at 7 - normally this would mean 'as if I'm going to the gym, there's no time'. WELL - I MADE time. Seb pulls up in the car at 5.30, I jump in, get myself to the gym, get picked up at 6.20, giving me half hour for a shower and get ready. In turn, I felt amazing & I only had a salad 'cause I didn't want to ruin my workout. 
Sorry to be a bore ladies but there's time! I'm sure I'll off days and I'm sure there genuinely won't always be time, but for now I'm enjoying my 'busy' schedule and I feel all the more better for it. I'm not lethargic anymore and I don't have time to overthink or feel guilty for not doing things. 
I've gone from no time to being able to do all these things in the last month and on-going:
  • Joined a charity committee (set them up a facebook page & organised 2 fundraising events)
  • Applied for 12 jobs
  • Fake tanned (Mums will know this is a big deal!) haha
  • Painted my nails (as above)
  • Set up this page!
  • Been to the gym 3 times a week and running twice a week
- as well as my usual being Mum, seeing friends, drinking wine etc. I'm not knackered, I feel ace & long may it continue...
Start by adding one additional thing to your week you've been meaning to do for ages and I PROMISE you'll feel benefits...
Lots of love xoxo

Welcome!

INTRO...

Hello!
I'm Amy/27/Wife/Mum to 7 month old Bub.
I'm excited to share my stories, thoughts, ideas and general wonderments of being a new Mum & new wife while trying to keep my identity through fashion, friends and finally loving life.
Heres me -
 
 Here's Bub - 
2014 - 2014 was a whirlwind year. In short - I discovered my Dad had terminal cancer, I got married (planned in 2 months), found out I was pregnant, left my job of 6 years, moved from Sheffield back to my hometown in Teesside, my Dad died and I had a baby.
It's been a struggle, me, hubby & Bub live with my Mum & I'm still trying to find my career path. Bub, friends and family have got my through this year and I like to think so has a bit of inner strength. I want to use this blog as kind of an outlet but I also hope my experiences will help someone else - as well as having fun with fashion, beauty and adventures as its time I stopped being so damn serious!
I'm excited to finally have got the courage & the time to dedicate to this blog journey & I hope to meet some like minded lovelies along the way.
Lots of love, xoxo